Who Says Self Praise Is No Recommendation?

There might be some truth in the old adage that “Self praise is no recommendation”, after all  no one likes a boaster or a big head. However,  there is a school of thought that we just don’t do enough of it, self praise that is, and  in fact should...

Conflict handling styles – The pros and cons

Last weeks posts focussed on the causes of conflict, and introduced the Thomas Kilman (TKI) Conflict Management Model. The TKI approach encourages us to consider how we deal with/respond to conflict. Yet before we can do that, we first have to understand our...

Making Assumptions and Paradigm Shifts

Yesterday I talked about some of the causes of conflict. Making assumptions and getting it wrong can certainly get us into some very hot water, and can be a key contributor to the creation of conflict. Now I am not for one moment suggesting that  making assumptions is...